I’ve posted here several times about a bump under the side of my tongue way in the back that has been there for over a year. 2 ENTs told me it was nothing to worry about but couldn’t tell me what it was....both told me they could feel the lump but not see it & that there was nothing to biopsy. Well now, I have developed a lump in my neck on the same side where the tongue bump is. It is about 3cm and feels hard but not rock hard. I am very scared that I have oral cancer and it has spread. It seems vertical coincidental to have the 2 bumps on the same side. I feel like I am awaiting a death sentence. I have an ultrasound on Wednesday. I am so scared. I am a 39 year old female...never smoked, rarely drink, really try to take care of myself, in general good health, and a single mom. Did anyone have their oral cancer/Mets present like this?