Welcome to the forum, but I’m so sorry that you have cause for joining us.

It’s tough to be alone at doctors’ appointments, to make sure you get most of the information down, I would suggest you write down all your questions prior and the make sure you ask the doctor for answers. I used to announce to the doctor that I had “x” number of questions asa soon as I got in. Then most doctors would ask, “Are there any more question?” before we finished. Seek out Pastoral Care or the Guidance Centre at your hospital so you get some supppoty that way. There are also volunteers in Waiting Rooms and they are helpful too. One time I was crying to in the Radiation Waiting Area while my husband was getting treatment, a volunteer saw me, sat down and spoke to me for a little while. Basically, all she said was, “trust the doctors, they know what they ar doing.” That, for me, was enough to get me through a rough patch — to know someone knew I was distressed and she comforted me.

You are welcome to post on the forum any time you want. This is a compassionate group who have a lot of experience among them. You may be able topick up some tips as you go along.