Hi Terry t. I was diagnosed in June 2019, 8 months after I retired too. Was diagnosed with a Stage 1 SCC of the left tongue. Had partial glossectomy July 22nd last year. Just had my 6th month check up which was fine. Been troubled with LPR (Laryngo Pharyngeal Reflux) more than anything since my surgery. It is a scary diagnosis. Terrifying. I felt the same way when I was first diagnosed not knowing what to expect, what was in-store down the road, and would I be a able to cope. Knowing you have support here with people who have been where you are now is a good start. There’s so much to learn here on this forum site from others. Have you had surgery or pending surgery? Keep us updated. We’re hear for you.