OMG thank you so much for taking such time and care to reply. I am crying. There are so many things you have said that touch a nerve. He is very stubborn and independent my brother. He is also an alcohol addict. Most probably depressed. I can see all this.
We are only 5 weeks post op really and I know it is a long long road. He still can’t swallow and this is really upsetting him. I think it’s the reality of how life changing this is that is hitting hard. I am going to take some time to digest your reply. Thank you so so so much. You have helped so much.