The "Good News" is that none of us is in this fight alone. Thanks to Brian and the original members of OCF, we don't have to go down this path unescorted. We have examples to follow, towers of strenght to draw from, support and loving concern to bolster us. Whatever happens at the end just happens. If you believe in God, you are going to a better place. If you believe in reincarnation, you may come back as your favorite animal. If you don't believe in anything, then it's "ashes to ashes and dust to dust". The fact is we, who have joined together here, are not alone in this fight. What a blessing and comfort for all of us. Amy