Susan, my husband and I thank you so much for your kind reply and your suggestions. We will definitely be looking at your old posts tonight and tomorrow since your story sounds so similar.
Also, an etiquette mistake--I had meant to post this in the introductions board but apparently clicked on the wrong tab in my browser when I was copying in my post text. If an administrator thinks it should be moved, please do so. Sorry!
Husband: tongue cancer, T1N0, age 39 at dx, HPV-, non-smoker, no known risk factors self-discovery of spot on tongue 8/12 lesion removal by oral surgeon 8/13, dx SCC 2nd surgery by ENT surgeon 8/13 re-emergence in scar tissue 6/17
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