The only thing that can prove cancer is a biopsy. Even that testing is subject to human error, but your doctor(s) may have a high opinion just on observation based on their experience. Mine wanted a biopsy for almost any suspicion be it a FNAB, punch, incisional or endoscopic biopsy under anesthesia, but my history with recurrences is different than most. Once an enlarged node wasn't biopsied right after treatment, and trusted the doctors opinion it was an inflammatory response. If I wasn't satisfied, I would go elsewhere and or see another one my doctors opinion or testing.
Good luck