Laura, I went in with the opinion that I wanted to do everything possible only ONCE. I had surgery (different area) IMRT rad and chemo too. That was more than three years ago. I can spit with the best of them and am in no way compromised in any part of my life. This is such a sneaky, nasty cancer that I stronly advise that you condsider hitting it hard. Rad is not always a nightmare. I did not have a terrible time. Yes, I was burned, but you know about good drugs, and I was never flat on my back. I also recovered very quickly. If rad is recommended, do not be fearful. You can do it!