So...after some consultation and a request I now have a copy of the most recent surgeons report along with pathology. The stitches scenario is "interesting" Apparently there were issues in keeping my jaw to stay together and it had to be replated and then the use of Maxon 3-0 became necessary. So these stitches have a min 180 day pre-absorb life....so I guess I wait! The check up was positive, the free flap looks good and I actually have some speech! Yay....I am still on soft foods and soups...does anyone have a web site or something for other food ideas. Yes...have talked to nutritionist and read lots....just wondered if other forum members have any other thoughts on bulking up! Thanks!