Hi Everyone,
Just got stage IV tounge cancer diagnosis for my 74 year old Dad. Quite a shock for us. Found it late - already in three lymph nodes. Surgery is last resort as they would have to remove most of his tounge. Interestingly, Dr. was sort of positive...but what I read it doesn't seem so positive.

Seeing Dr. Weinstein at U of Penn Wednesday. Hoping he has better news. I read some of the posts on here and it looks like there are stage iv survivors which is very encouraging.

Any advice for us as we go through getting opinions and setting up a plan for treatment?

Thanks so much.