Yes three weeks does seam like a long time. But I guess that is probably because of the holidays. All I can do now is wait and just hope for the best, would have helped to know sooner as this will be hanging over my head all through Christmas. Aww bless you sounds like you have been through the mill. It must have been so hard. I hope you enjoy your support group. Sometimes it does help a lot to just talk about it. X x x