Haha Chris! How very true. You sound like your wrote the book on my husband! He can be a tough nut to crack at times, but he's been pretty good about me pushing him. It's a fine line between caregiver and wife. I try to respect his opinion yet I know he is basing decisions on how awful he feels right now. I will carry that man on my back, if I have to, and get him to that finish line. Thanks for your input.