Hi Danielle,
I'm sorry to hear about your dad, but it may not be quite as grim as you think.
A link to my intro is in my sig, and if you or he have any questions, feel free to PM me.
I've had 4 instances of outbreaks of distant metastases in my liver, and one in a lymph node midway between the bottom of the liver and the stomach. Each outbreak has been treated differently, with one exception which I will explain:
1st recurrence: Treated with cocktail of Carboplatin and Taxol/Taxetere. Got all tumors
2nd recurrence: Treated with Xeloda (pill form of 5FU). Got all tumors.
3rd recurrence: Treated with Xeloda. Xeloda did not work this time, all tumors had grown significantly, plus there was a new crop on hand (the 4th recurrence.)
4th recurrence: Both lobes of the liver were packed full of SIRIspheres. Got all tumors of both sets.
5th recurrence: The lone lymph node (cue William Tell Overture) Treated with 3 weeks (14 times on the table) - Just completed a week ago Monday so won't know for sure until next month, but every reason to believe that the radiation took care of the node. Stay tuned.
I hope this helps,
Bart
My intro:
http://oralcancersupport.org/forums/ubbt...3644#Post16364409/09 - Dx OC Stg IV
10/09 - Chemo/3 Cisplatin, 40 rad
11/09 - PET CLEAN
07/11 - Dx Stage IV C. (Liver)
06/12 - PET CLEAN
09/12 - PET Dist Met (Liver)
04/13 - PET CLEAN
06/13 - PET Dist Met (Liver + 1 lymph node)
10/13 - PET - Xeloda ineffective
11/13 - Liver packed w/ SIRI-Spheres
02/14 - PET - Siri-Spheres effective, 4cm tumor in lymph-node
03/15 - Begin 15 Rads
03/24 - Final Rad! Woot!
7/27/14 Bart passed away. RIP!