Hi Kimberly,

Welcome here, I hope you read what Tony (n74tg) said about fear, he's absolutely correct, both in his analysis and his recommendations. Tony "get's it!"

He's also speaking truth when he says how good an idea it would be for your husband to join himself, you two are a team and both players need to be up to date on the current game-plan.

Also, seeing others who have walked the same path before you, and reading what they have to say will go a long way to helping your husband keep things in perspective.

Learning that you have cancer is not a happy thing, but it's not the end of the world either. Life extracts a toll for each of us for our passage through it, no one escapes the toll, we all just pay in different currencies. Cancer is just one of those tolls, and from that perspective, really just another day...