Hello Sweet Amy, You have been dealt 2 strokes of bad luck & I am so sorry. I also had a miscarriage (in my 4th month). My 30 yr. old son now, was only 18 months at the time. It's a sad ordeal to go thru. You wake up pregnant in the morning & go to bed that night not pregnant, no baby, just wonder & sadness. I DID have a healthy baby girl with my next pregnancy! SO HANG ON TO HOPE! Now about this cancer. It sucks & has no right to interfere with our business of living! But, you are not alone. I too am facing surgery. You are ahead of me, as I just got a (positive) biopsy last week. We will get through this together!!! We are women, we are mom's! And hot dam girl, they got good drugs to ease our pain! I have no pride & plan on whining the minute I walk in the hospital! I have been through oral cancer in 08, treated w/radiation & chemo. Like childbirth, you do forget most of it. My advice to you Amy, believe & know that every second that goes by, brings you closer to being Cured. Draw courage for the love of your child. Lean on the Angels on this forum! I am right behind you & we will carry on!