Dear Carl,
My heart goes out to you. It's tough going through so many things at once. My husband was diagnosed with Stage IV tongue cancer which involved nodal involvement bilaterally in the neck and he just finished his chemo and radiation txs (radiation was twice a day for 5-1/2 weeks). We are awaiting what comes next. However, my Dad passed away the same day my husband was diagnosed in March and I had so much thrown at me at once. This is a wonderful website and it has given me alot of hope for my husband and I'm sure it will do the same for you. God Bless and stay strong.
Regards,
Virginia
Wife to Doug SCC base of tongue T4N2cM0