I was diagnosed 7 years ago at age 33, stage 3/4 lateral tongue. Never smoked, rarely drink.
Had: radical neck dissection, 1/3 tongue reconstruction, and max radiation. As a professional storyteller, I have been blessed to remain articulate. I have convinced many of the organizations for which I perform to have me speak on Overcoming Adversity, and I have had the opportunity to speak to many groups across the country on OC screenings.
I think I can best help others on emotional support, and suggestions for organizing the support network, which frees up the caregiver. I found that many people want to help, they often just don't know what to do, and sometimes make life more difficult (like sending plants that need to be watered, and huge flower arrangements that require cleaning up pollen, fallen petals, and must be chucked in a very large garbage bag which can make such a mess!)

Eva