Here comes final opinion as I mat fourth team at CCC here in PA. I can tell you one thing, same decease, almost same high level opinions but with different approaches to achieve those. Here are break downs with the same treatment options.
Treatment options by all honorable teams from four CCC: Surgery followed by combination of Chemo+Rad

Differences: Remember all CCC came with same offerings with little variations in their treatment patterns.

First CCC: Surgery + Neck Recession on both side on a same day. 4-5 days in hospital. Chemo+Rad based on Second Report

Second CCC: Surgery + Neck Recession on one side on a same day. 2-3 days in hospital. Chemo+Rad based on Second Report

Third CCC: Surgery + Neck Recession on both side on a same day. 4-5 days in hospital. Chemo+Rad based on Second Report. Offered/recommended reconstruction if necessary.

Fourth CCC: First Surgery only. NO Neck Recession required at all in first place based on my PET/CT results. 1 day in hospital. Neck recession will be a second phase look up/thought (not actual surgery) on a following appointment after three weeks of first surgery. Chemo+Rad will be least case scenario in this case.

Conclusion: First of all "BIG Thank You" from bottom of my heart to country's top doctors at different CCCs I mat and for their time to review my case. I respect all honorable doctors who gave me candid advises in my best interest. Reason for all opinions was, I wanted to have treatment in PA from where I belong to and luckily I was on travel for a month in the Midwest while first time cancer was diagnosed and detected by an oral surgeon, so I took an opportunity to have multiple first round opinions right there (OH and IL) before I landed in PA for the final round of meetings. I thoughtfully arranged all five visits in 20 days since Dec 4. Schedule for surgery in the first week of January. Will keep you posted after that. Hopefully a week or two weeks after the surgery.