There are a few members who have been thru this with their loved ones. Im not sure how frequently they are on the forum.

We can try to help you but hospice would be the best ones to help you as they have been specially trained in everything relating to end of life. At OCF, we will always attempt to help everyone. But this subject might be better off with the experts. We do have one section where its devoted to members with deceased OC patients. Its way down on the bottom of the main forum page.

Im very sorry you are in this situation. Im wishing you all the very best with everything. We are here to listen and support you as much as we can.

Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile