The reasons that you give for thinking you have
HPV orally is what throws the doctors off. They all know that while that is a transfer mechanism for oral
HPV, the mathematical odds of getting a PERSISTENT HIGH RISK
HPV ORALLY THAT DEVELOPS INTO A CANCER is really very low. But because of all the news stories, people are coming into their office like cray with stories about their spouses and the people they slept with in the past.
Having said all that, if you are going to have a tonsillectomy, I would be sure that the tonsillar tissue that tis removed goes to a pathology laboratory for complete analysis. If you have a cancer starting from
HPV, the pathologist will know. It might save you from this developing further in other lymph tissues in your mouth as you will have caught it early, and it might teach the ENT's not to take this stuff so flippantly, as a small percentage of the people they see DO ACTUALLY HAVE A CANCER DEVELOPING.