Hello Edd
Well Bless your heart , you are having a double whammy aren`t you.
Probably the best place for you right now is the "Currently in treatment " link. Go back and research past posts , whatever problems you are having , someone has likely addressed them there.
Or if if you are having a specific issue , just ask us. We will help and encourage any way we can.
Best wishes to you nad your wife.
Marica