The husband of a friend of mine went through something similar at the same time I was going through my surgery and recovery. He also had SCC and lymph nodes removed. His were below the ear on his neck. Nodes were clear and that is the only treatment he required. He's missing an ear lobe on one side, but doing fine.

I thought they should have been more concerned, but my worry didn't accomplish anything for them or me!

Sincerely,
Lisa