Welcome!
I just went through surgery myself for tongue cancer. I have been with-drawn and kinda keep to myself more than I did. I know my parents are having a hard time with it. I think its because it is so scary and I try to be brave and do it on my own. I hope she feels better soon. Just keep trying to reach her. What kind of surgery did she have? Everyone is so nice on these boards and it helps a lot! I have found much comfort here!


Age 36
Mommy of 4 smile
Diagnosed 8/5-tongue cancer
T2 tumor with partial-glossectomy 8/13/13 along with neck dissection HPV positive
Path report all clear margins!
11/5/13- enlarged taste bud and mild Dysplasia
Surgery planned for 11/12
11/12 cancer cells removed
Staged increased to stage 3. T3N1
Chemo and rads started 3/4/14
33 rads and 6 chemo
Peg tube 3/7/14
37 radiation and 8 chemo treatments
Completed treatment 4/25/14
recurrence 12/1/15
surgery for Hemiglossectomy 12/11/15