Good News, went to my ENT and he took a biopsy but didnt think it was necessary. Believes it to be an ulcerated spot caused by sharp teeth. Even with all the filing down of my teeth I have had done, its apparently not enough.
I should get the results of the biopsy in another week.
Guess its been awhile but I seem to remember my biopsies healing faster than this one. No sutures, just some silver nitrate to control the bleeding and a course of antibiotics (I have a congenital heart defect) still not healed but it hasnt been quite 2 weeks yet. Pain is much better.