Hi Travelottie,
I see you got some great advice. And maybe this is not the best time, but I just want to say that seeing your husband as a 5 year survivor of BOT is encouraging and I appreciate the fact you are here and share your experiences. I am only 2 years out BOT, age 50, but it's been a long two years and I can hear in your voice the same way my wife sounds at times. It's great to have caregivers such as yourself (and my wife) around ....
Whispered a prayer you and your husband get through all this with little to no side affects ...it's not much to offer, but it's all I got though I wish I could do more ...