I know this can be so overwhelming when first diagnosed. Try your very best to remain calm and clear thinking. Being upset is NOT healthy for you or the baby.
Educate yourself. Read the main OCF pages and learn. You want to go into your appointment and actually understand what is being discussed. Do not go alone. Being upset you will probably not be able to pay attention and retain everything that is being discussed. Im sure you will think of questions as you are on your way home when its too late to ask the doc. That always happens to me if I dont make a long detailed list of things to ask. Take a tape recorder and tape the office visit, ask permission first.
Here is a link for the main OCF pages so you can take some time and review the info. It will help you with your appointment. Juts remember radiation oncologists always recommend radiation while surgeons always say surgery is the way to go. At a CCC an entire team of specialists would be treating you and they would all be on the same page. Maybe its worth looking into. I also put you in touch with a good friend who is a valuable resource and local to you. She is there to help you so dont forget about asking her if you need help.
Treatment Info from main OCF pages Best of luck with everything!!!