Thank you all. He has throat pain, and numbness below ear and neck near the stitch areas. he can talk but unable to open his mouth normal. There is a cut in cheek too that got pus.
His IV area is swollen and the nurse tried the other hand with no luck. Starting to feel the pain i guess and depression and fear sinking in. This is all so sudden until last weekend, it was normal life going to work coming home to a loving family & now in bed with all this pain is making him anxious.

Any tips to turn the anxiety and or how to cope up? Make him listen to something or talk about something or what will help? Any suggestions please?

Thanks for all your kind words