Welcome to OCF. Your Mom has been through a lot and still not out of the forest yet. Far easier said than done but do try to not think out unknown situations as it just makes your daily quality of life suffer and you want to have each day be as happy and as meaningful as possible now. We see so many times people just wreck their day worrying that it is sad to see one lose what could have been a happy day to one that is racked with anxiety and worry. Try not to let that happen to you.

As to your Mom, she is getting the best care she can so you must try to take each day as it comes. That does not mean you should not get as educated and informed about the possible options which is strongly encouraged, just don't try to pick outcomes until actually presented. best to you and your Mom. Don