Dear Michelle
You have had a rough road but hopefully his Doc`s have a handle on it now. If his mucous problem is really bad ask your team to find a Yankeur suction machine for him. Keep the room moist , propping him up to sleep might help also.
One of the most important bits of advice I can give concerns the Amofostine infusions, given to prevent damage to the salivary glands. They might make him very sick but, encourage him to suffer them as long as he can . Lack of saliva is a major problem after treatmet, affecting his teeth, gums etc, That was our one big regret, Pete was so sick he just could not handle it. If we had been more aware of the ramifications of stopping the treatment he said he would have suffered thru them.
Keep us informed as to what is going on with both of you. We will help any way we can.
Take care
Marica