Pamela, in the meantime, while we are waiting to see what the final outcome is going to be, I give my husband a small cup of coffee wherever I make myself one. We call it his "coffee swish." He swishes it round his mouth and spits it out. It somehow seems to give him a sense that not all is lost. But if you are going to do that and put in sugar and milk, then do make sure he brushes his teeth afterwards so that the sugar does not cause caries.

Gloria
She stood in the storm, and when the wind did not blow her way, she adjusted her sails... Elizabeth Edwards

Wife to John,dx 10/2012, BOT, HPV+, T3N2MO, RAD 70 gy,Cisplatinx2 , PEG in Dec 6, 2012, dx dvt in both legs after second chemo session, Apr 03/13 NED, July 2013 met to lungs, Phase 1 immunotherapy trial Jan 18/14 to July/14. Taxol/carboplatin July/14. Esophagus re-opened Oct 14. PEG out April 8, 2015. Phase 2 trial of Selinexor April to July 2015. At peace Jan 15, 2016.