Pookie,
I am so sorry about your father. I just lost my father, he was 88, but it does not make the loss any less. Only comforting thought is that he is not suffering now.
How old is your daughter?
Leena

scc right tonsil T1N1M0, right tonsillectomy + modified neck dissection 3/04, radiation IMRT both sides X33 ended 6/04.
Also had renal cell carcinoma, left kidney removed 11/04