Thank you so much, everyone for your replies! They really help.
Brian, your comments really put things in perspective and are so appreciated!
I am so grateful to all of you and for having OCF in my life.

Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)