Hi Pamy,
I just started reading posts on this site in February after my recurrence of SCC of the gum. After my first diagnosis 2 years ago, I only had surgery and was able to return to teaching a few weeks later. This time I had to undergo 6 weeks of radiation after surgery which was more difficult, but I just returned to teaching again after 2 1/2 months off. So to answer your question, yes there is "normal" life after a cancer diagnosis, but your health going into it and a positive attitude going through it, will help to ensure a better outcome, both physically and emotionally. You'll be in my prayers as you await your biopsy results.