Sue, I read your post yesterday and thought how much your current situation mirrors ours......Frank`s latest tumor is in a sinus cavity and surgery is not an option, since he had all the radiation possible we are faced with only chemo, and the word palliative. We`ve been through 6 surgeries. I can`t really say I`ve even absorbed the meaning of all this. I understand your tears, it seems to never give us a break, it`s easy to say I`m going to take one day at a time, but harder to practice, at least for me.....Please understand we are dealing with the same dreadful news you are, and we will keep you in our prayers.......Packer and Dee