chuckles

It's unclear to me whether you want discussions about your husband's issues or the very real and different yet intertwined issues of caregivers. If it is the latter, then try posting your issue in a separate forum here, called caregivers . It's description says it all
[quote]Family members and caretakers can discuss their own personal issues and find support here. Caretakers have their own fears and problems that are often better discussed with someone other than the patient.[/quote]
But if it's things about your husband's TX, there are way too many of us who have have the cancer come back so if there is something specific, post and we will try our best to answer you.
Charm