Kim,
My, what a story. I am really sorry you have had to go through so much. I get so angry when I hear about insurance companies determining the care we need. I have a few of those stories but none of my angst was created by the insurance companies. My first insurance company (you can call it insurance company "A" since you like the alphabet game

) even assigned a patient advocate to me to ask any questions about treatment, cancer, issues in the family, etc. since I was dealing with cancer. She didn't answer questions very fast and I am not sure how thorough her research abilities were but I still thought it was a great concept.
I hope you are well on your way to recovering from the treatment and surgeries. I pray for His grace, peace and continued healing for you. May your blessings be many!
My brother's birthday is May 5 and at 51 I asked him if he knew what Cinco de Mayo was and he didn't.

I just assumed everybody did.
Great to have you here.
Ed