IMO she needs to be seen by a few docs ASAP. One to evaluate her overall and get her consuming at least 2500 cals and 48 ozs of water each and every day and obviously to make sure nothing other than recovery from her treatment is wrong with her. The second doc I would see is one that would pay attention to her depression.

You also could use some TLC right now. This is a great, a huge thing you have done for your sis and she will appreciate it once she is able to see the light at the end of this ordeal. Hang in there but do see that she gets to see these docs.

I would also remove your e mail from the general forum.

David

Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.