Hey Cowie,
Welcome to our family! It's not easy but we definitely are supportive here! My husband has also been thru the tongue cancer, also with a recurrance to the neck. I will keep you in my prayers.
Take care,
Debbie

Debbie - Caregiver for husband, Dan, diagnosed with tongue cancer 7/03. Partial gloss., mod. neck dissections, graft. Recurrence neck tumor 12/03. Radical left neck dissection 12/24/03-unable to get all the tumor. 8 weeks chemo/rad beginning 1/12/04.