Dad is still going through pre-op testing. Today we should find out what the recommended course of action is. Tentatively scheduled for surgery Dec 21, but we are trying to get it moved up. Good news is my folks live 5 miles from me and we are 30 miles from MD Anderson. Also, I only have a 2 mile commute to work which will facilitate coming and going for me. Thank you for asking about us. Lately, I've been crying at work, but have a great boss who understands. My Mother is concerned because of his age, and hers - she is 80. We know it will be difficult. However, she is a tough military wife that is already in "problem solving mode." Posting separately for advice on communication tools.