I have another question. She said that that biopsy showed it was cancer. But she didn't have any informatiuon about size or stage or anythng. The biopsy was done by an oral surgeon. I just assumed they would be able to give her more information. does he need to have a biopsy from a cancer specialist to get the information on size and stage?
And has anyone heard of the cancer facilties in Columbus Ohio?

Thanks everyone for all the info and kind words. We are leaving on vacation this week and I feel almost guilty leaving at a time like this.