Hi welcome to the club no one wants to join..as you say finding others to vent with is a big help.. now you have found us don't go away.. we are a crazy crowd.. it's not all serious stuff..
we don't quit on anyone here.. we never know what help we may need ourselves along this rocky road...
Take Care
Helen

SCC Base of tongue, (TISN0M0) laser surgery, 10/01 and 05/03 no clear margins. Radial free flap graft to tonsil pillar, partial glossectomy, left neck dissection 08/04