Its perfectly normal to be in alot of pain after any major surgery. Being in pain has never once helped a patient heal. Its ok to take pain meds. A agree with David, if you try to tough it out and then try playing catch up it usually doesnt work out so well. Better to take the meds for a few days as prescribed (usually every 4 hours or so depending upon the medication). If your father has been given something mild like something just a little stronger than is available over the counter then no wonder he is hurting. Recovery from what your father went thru can take several weeks, he will gradually feel better as time goes on.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile