Welcome to OCF, Deb. I am so sorry to hear about what your husband is going thru! I know how painful those bone shard can be. Ive gone thru that too and it was agony! Please reassure your husband it will get easier! It takes lots of time, up to 2 years to fully recover. Im sure he is already feeling better than he was when he first finished.

I would suggest getting him to another doctor. The tone of this one doesnt sound like its the best place for someone struggling to recover. Your husband could need a mandibulectomy which means removing part of his jaw. An ENT who is experienced with oral cancer patients can help you with this. If he wasnt treated at a cancer center I would suggest to take him to one. Did your husband have any teeth removed? This does not sound like something most of us who only had rads w/ chemo have gone thru so soon after finishing.

To help your husband;s recovery, keep pushing the nutrition with getting a minimum of 2500 calories and 48 oz of water daily. He also needs higher protein right now to help rebuild his body. I know 2500 calories sounds like its alot but after what he has been thru his body is in 'fight mode' and is burning calories like crazy just trying to recover. Ive used a high protein whey powder added to my liquid nutrition, it can easily be added to milk or juice as well. There are also high protein shots available to drink which have 35 calories per 2.9 oz called poasis. I didnt care for the taste so put them in my feeding tube. Carnation Very High Calorie can be ordered thru the green Amazon link on the main forum pages. This has 560 calories per can. If using it ith a feeding tube, its pretty thick so add a can of water.

Best wishes!