Philly - It's so good to hear from you and to know that you've come thru all the hard times and found love again. It's sad that your ex seems to have given up in caring for his health but ultimately he has to make his own decisions.

Scott sounds like a wonderful man! Enjoy each precious moment with him and with your children.

Anne-Marie
CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)