I can't thank you all enough for the support and encouragement. I have SCC stage 3 at the base of my tongue. Odd I went to the ENT and thought I had a problem with a TMJ in my jaw. What a shock when he palpatated a mass on the tongue. Things have moved rapidly. I have an IV mediport and a peg tube to help when I can't eat or my mouth is sore. I finished the first round of chemo on Friday and my first week of radiation. Some nausea and complete loss of appetite but so far so good. I do feel tired a lot a sleep more than usual but I think my body is in a battle that all I can do is allow it rest and as much nourishment as I can get down. This certainly bring a different way to a persons views of the world and of the priorities. I am blessed with a family that loves me without reservation. Thanks again for my welcome into the club no one wants to be part of.