{{{Deb}}} So sorry to hear the news but hopefully they caught it early.

Interpreting scans is an art as much as it is science, I think that's why so many of us seek second opinions. That said, has anyone suggested a biopsy to be sure that this is cancer? Just a thought....

As to the whys of the neck dissection, from what I have read and been told it is the best method of ensuring that no cancer cells are left behind. For example in hubby's case, if they had done a radical neck dissection on both sides, there is a good chance that the current recurrence wouldn't have happened (since the nodes would have been removed). Radiation works on the tumor cells. That said, if a cell survives the radiation the resulting tumor is harder to kill since it is somewhat radiation resistant (this was something we just recently learned).

Don't feel bad about the infection. Mike was seeing an oncologist about another tumor marker in the blood when he discovered his swollen lymph gland. That doctor, the PCP and the general surgeon ALL felt that it was just a swollen lymph gland and would go away. Only after it had grown in size did the surgeon opt to remove it...and thus we started our journey.

BTW, I think you may have sent me email. I'm WAY behind in replies right now as we get through the holidays, a heavy work schedule and all the doctor appts. Will answer though!!!!

Keep us updated and don't lose hope!