Hi, Annie
Before you have your appoinment, get a 3-ring notebook. Put all of your paperwork in it.

In another section, write down your questions with plenty of room for answers. You can make "Dr. Rushed" wait as you write down the answers.

People have a tendency to take people more seriously if something is written down - it looks more professional. On your end, it will help you keep on track, and not get flustered. You will want to ask the questions after the exam - but don't let him out of the room without answering your questions.

My would often say, when she had done as much as she could do, "let go, let God". It's hard not to be nervous, but it looks like you are on track for your recovery, and to be the best organized patient ever at your followup. Best wishes and enjoy every day!