Hey Annie,

I am 38 too. Was diagnosed at 33 with tongue cancer. I had a full glossectomy , neck dissection - then radiation and chemo. The side effects are intense from radiation and chemo but they were manageable and go away for the most part....
I am 5 years out and spicey food and alcohol are hard for me but I can do them in moderation. They tend to burn but it keeps improving. Those are the only permanent ones for me. I've figured out which foods work for me and which things are foods of the past (spicey salsa- jalepeno.. cayenne). My neck is also stiff but that is mainly form the neck dissection.

Personally, I am thankful I threw the book at this as I will never have that "what if?" feeling. I did everything in my power to get rid of it from day one.

My dad is Patholoigst with many years experience studying cancer. said to me that with cancer the first chance you get to kill all the cancer cells is the best chance you will ever have.

SCC is not a type of cancer that is completely curable with chemo. Surgery and radiation or all 3 can cure it so that you will never have to think about it again.

Take Care and best of luck with your upcoming surgery. Will be praying for a 100% successful surgery and recovery for you!!
I hope you don't have to have radiation. If they recommend it you must do it. You will get through it. You are tough and strong!

KATE