Welcome and I am sorry you and your husband are going through this. I feel your pain, as I just completed my treatment last week. What everyone is saying is true, the best thing you can do at this point is have your husband eat and then eat some more, he is going to need the extra weight. For me, once I started treatment eating was one of the last things I wanted to do. Thank goodness for my wife she made a daily menu and made sure I was eating. Please keep us posted on how is treatment is going, the folks on this forum have good ideas and valuable experiences they are willing to share. Ask and someone will answer it, finding OCF has been a blessing for me.