Faerie,

I just recently got the news of my own diagnosis and I am still in the process of finding out what is going on. The people here have been great in answering questions and offering encouragement.

For myself, the news did send me into a depression which I have slowly begun to set aside. What has helped is what I have heard hear. I would also suggest to you and your dad to ask the doctors the questions that are bothering him. The first docotor I met with helped a great deal by saying: "Hi Fr. Mike, I'm Dr. Treat and the first thing you need to know is that this can be treated." (This was before he even reviewed what we knew at the time) No matter what the stage he wanted me to know right off that it can be treated. Your dad needs to hear that too. He was very honest with me that it will be rough but that is something I'm more than willing to deal with.

I will admit that there have been good days and bad days (and I know many more of both to come) but I'm one of those people who think that our attitude about this can be a big factor.

Please know that you and your dad are in my prayers.

Peace,

Fr. Mike